HOW CAN I NOT REBLOG THIS
Always reblog. My dad suffers from ALS and this makes me smile
It would be wrong for me to say that you shouldn’t be attracted to this new guy, because we’re human. and we can’t help it. However, my theory always has been, if the attraction is strong enough that you actually ACT on that attraction, something needs to be done.
That being said, you and your boyfriend may be the best couple in the world, but in the end, if you aren’t extremely happy with the way things are going, sexually and emotionally, you need to speak up about it. Just say, I think our fighting is getting out of hand, and I really think we need to learn to communicate better. Your fighting may be whats affecting your sex. I recommend first trying to get a grip on this relationship before pursuing one with someone else. Maybe two months from now if you aren’t feeling better about it, you should just come to terms with the fact that you’re not happy and that you need to end it. If that’s the case, I would most definitely recommend trying things with this new guy. But, don’t start something without finishing what you already have! Good luck, let me know how it goes!
You stated you’ve never second guessed it. This, for me, is the first sign to say you’re most definitely straight. Whatever you were feeling when you sent this is normal. We get wrapped up in “the normality” of life, and what we are SUPPOSED to do and what we are SUPPOSED to feel. So when we don’t get that “rush of love” moment from kissing, or whatever it may be, we freak out and think something is wrong with us. Most likely, it’s like you said - you just didn’t like those guys. You’ll find someone eventually that you DO have sparks with, and you’ll be very glad that you waited.
I AM SO TERRIBLE. Do you even realize how long it’s taken me to get back to you? I’m so sorry. I’ve read this a hundred times, and can’t even wrap my head around what to say to you. Normally, I would do the whole speech about how if he can’t see what is right in front of him, he doesn’t deserve to….but honestly. that’s crap. you like him, and you should go for it! I don’t know exactly how to get him to realize. there are so many ways you could approach this. mostly, I think if you’re happy, and independent, but still let him know that you’d be willing to give him a chance,he’ll come to you eventually. you know? just don’t be obsessive. and do your own thing. he’ll get it eventually, if he’s smart… good luck!!! let me know how it goes!