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Hello, so basically, my gf;s parents hate me and my parents hate her ever since they found out about us. W're both 22, been together for 2 years, working at finishing college and we're planning for our future. the thing is, we have no intimate/ alone time since we cant go over to each other's homes so we basically go on dates every other day. I'm worried if the lack of intimacy (not necessarily sex, but alone time) will be a hinder to our relationship. we are madly in love. Im just scared.
AnonymousThat could be a problem. Maybe you guys could start looking for places to live together, like an apartment or something. It’s always good to live with someone for awhile anyways, before you plan a future. It’s a lot different living with someone, than it is to just be dating them. And as for her parents, its not their choice. The fact that she continues seeing you, even without parental approval, says a lot about your guys relationship. I wouldnt be too worried about it. But I would talk to her about possibly finding a place together :)
Dear Gays,
I’m just like you. I’ve been scared. I’ve been afraid of the world; I’ve been scared of myself. I’m not going to tell you that it gets better, or something cliche, because it’s up to you if it does or not. You can probably read some of my posts and look at my pictures and see that I’m this happy, strong girl who’s endured a lot but still is giving. I haven’t always been this way. I’ve turned to the internet before, just like you are here, looking for peace; hoping, praying that someone out there feels the way I do. That just maybe, I’m not alone in this fight. I’ve been disappointed. Not by the lack of openness about this topic, but by the lack of humanity - of good, honest, caring people. People make jokes about being gay all the time. Others, see these jokes, and end their lives because of them. Before you make a permanent decision to a temporary problem, listen to my words. It’s not weak or cowardly to hide because you’re gay, it’s weak and cowardly to bully someone who is. By being gay, we are dealt some cards that will nearly break us and downright destroy us. We will live in a world where people are not accepting of us. They will whisper about us, and put us through a living hell. We can’t blame them because they don’t know better. They don’t know that we didn’t wake up one day and say, “todays the day to be gay!” It just happened. None of us would have ever wished this upon ourselves. I’m asking that you be as open about your gay life as I am, because hiding is what they want from us. We have to be who we are, and that is the only thing that will make us happy. I’ve been in your shoes, and I’ve hid from it for years. I have my days, just as any gay does, where I come home from school or work in tears over the things I’ve heard about me. At the end of every day, though, I’m gay and I’m proud to be who I am. Love yourself and love one another. <3
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So Sarah and I have known each other our whole lives, we've been dating for six months, and we're pretty positive we'll be together for the rest of our lives.We've been through so much between school and her parents and my job, but tonight my parents told me that they weren't going to pay for college and they were kicking me out at the end of high school (a month) if i didn't stop. My mom threatened to kill me. So I'm a bit conflicted. I'm not giving sarah up, but any advice on how i'll survive?
That’s tough. Maybe look into other living arrangements. I don’t know how accepting Sarah’s family is, but that COULD be a possibility…or maybe it’s time for you to branch out on your own. I know you’re young, and it’s probably hard financially, but a lot of people make it work…maybe you could be one of them. Otherwise, try talking to your parents. Just sit down and explain that this is who you are, it’s your life and that you love your family, but you love Sarah. It’s harder for family to accept, than it is for us. We know for certain what we want, while our parents have always hoped we would grow up, find a husband and give them grandkids. They’ve looked forward to it all their lives, and we have to take it in to consideration, and not get too angry with them for feeling the way they do. My parents were the same way; kicked me out, disowned me for two years, and just recently made contact with me again. You just have to know in your heart who you are, and not be willing to give that up for anyone or anything.
